I really appreciate your efforts on this. Shame on your ex. Now I’m the one that is so angry I cannot contain it. took to my lawyer and they will decide what and how this should be delt with. Included at the end of this blog post are a couple online quizzes - the Autism Spectrum Quotient and the Aspie Quiz I’ve dated casually with varying frequency over the years, and some women were nice, but ultimately I’ve found “modern” women to be selfish, cruel, and completely stuck on themselves. Both seeing therapists separately. We didn’t have a marriage we didnt even make love or confide in each other so the marriage was actually over. He is so intent in making me suffer that he doesn’t realize or care that our son is the poor victim of all these. ; heartless. Sasuke is firmly convinced that he is the best. Cara as portrayed by Tabrett Bethell is of medium, with blonde hair, and is often described as beautiful by other characters. Meanwhile he spent so much of my paycheck that my bank account was always negative. There is something wrong with this picture most definitely. She lives in our former home worth over $500K. It doesn’t add up. However, does that mean that the person deserves to have lies made up about them? It’s always the sweet ones that set traps, talk about past sex life and then lie about their ex’s. I feel you, all of that, on a lower scale financially, but not discounting that she didn’t work, as it is quite shocking that she was able to afford an attprney without your funds, and most women that i know that have been alienated were stay at home moms who had no money of their own and their ex was able to bribe the children, in a sense, due to that fact, and lay false claims of abuse, and voila, erased mom, sleeping on friends couch, working 3 jobs to afford the level of child support at minimum wage, which makes no sense to me if she never had an income. I think you’re doing a great job inpiring and motivating people. Sasuke heavily punishes his own body with overuse of the Mangekyo Sharingan and its gifts, and he incorrectly thinks that he alone knows what's best for his clan, the Hidden Leaf Village, and indeed, the entire world. Back 22+ years ago I was paying her $1100.00 a month for 2 kids. Financial Planning and Investing – Vestor Capital, Online parenting class – Children in Between, Children’s minds can be manipulated so easily. Thus, Sasuke's lust for power was born, and this, more than anything else, defined Sasuke's character arc. It is impossible for the vindictive ex to experience any of this. We’ve been fighting this battle for 3 years now, and the few incidents I’ve mentioned aren’t even the tip of the iceberg. He would use the money I earned to buy them gifts from “Dad” on special occasions while I was at work. He LOST his attempts in court…. I feel like giving up, I feel like quitting and running away, but my conviction stops me, my fear for God prevents this. Of my exes only 4 (2 wives, 2 girlfriends) have been vindictive. I was raised that us kids never knew what our parent financial or personal thing between our parents. We were doing fine, I was supporting them and my youngest without his help and never turned him in, and he had to get government assistance because obviously if someone can’t afford to pay child support, they can’t afford to keep them either. He threatened to kill my new boyfriend if he came around my adult children. I learned that that hard way. Caste: Mord-Sith Portrayed by: Tabrett Bethell Cara Mason is a main character in the second season of Legend of the Seeker. Divorced Girl Smiling is here to empower, connect and inspire you. Naruto can't stand it. You see I love helping people, and i’m such a geek, the last thought i would have is doing something to hurt someone. I have to believe a vindictive ex will at some point feel intense guilt by the cruel, destructive behavior or the lies they told–either consciously or subconsciously. I am so sorry you have had to deal with this. If we continue to fight, the kids continue to be essentially tortured, if we walk away(which we DO NOT want) the kids think all they’ve been told about us is true. She has them calling me names, being mean and ignoring my kids, had the kids threaten to leave him if he has anything to do with me. I usr have a question. The ex-wife has “won”, but at what cost? Karin was a member of Sasuke's team for a time, and she nursed an intense crush on him. Last year, i have decided that my 6 years of diplomatic approach doesn’t work and it is now time to seek the court’s help. From this letter alone, it appears that he is really desperate, insecure, resentful and vindictive. Instead, he used her and exploited her, then left her for dead. So I can’t tell you when it Stops…. She is now working to use the courts to enforce anyway, resulting in further destroyed credit, lost job opportunities (passport taken by child support), drivers license revoked. She dragged me into the court where she is more protective with lies than I am with the truth. My god lady, have some compassion and let them get on their feet. Add women give them selves permission to do anything they want. Sasuke's lifelong mission was to restore the Uchiha Clan and take down anyone who was responsible for its demise. My daughter is in this situation now. How anyone could not see how easy it is for a vindictive parent to not care about their chid at all and use their teenaged angst to their advantage is the perfect example of what our courts promote to stir up litigation after years and settling in, and thinking you are finally going somewhere. I am referring to the vindictive ex. So, if you are in a position where someone is making up lies about you, definitely consult with an attorney. I wish my ex would read it and understand that it’s not worth it. Counselors told me I had battered wife syndrome. I was considering divorce when I was pregnant with my 13 year old, back when the mom was more likely to get the kids. She didnt want the children to meet me. You must be in Canada as you mentioned CRA, so am I. Ontario has the worst outcome for moms dealing with narcissists. Then there is Sasuke, who refuses to see himself in other people, or vice versa. He is sick. Thanks, Jackie. I hope someone will read this and come to my aid. I Have tried to be nice and make friends with her since she was going to be part of my family. Also I have observed that the mother seems to drink and she bought beer for the addicted one the night before he was going into rehab. NEXT: 10 Things That Happened to Sasuke Between Shippuden And Boruto. He doesn’t bother to tell my daughter, who gets a call that her son was absent. I want to put her and her daughter out on the street where they belong. Sasuke has committed more than a few villainous deeds along the way, many of which stem from his twisted personality. 1. That’s pretty harsh, Stop making your EX husbands wife hell! The day I told her I was leaving she set and cried but no once did she ask my to stay. Sasuke is rather high-strung, and he often uses that as an excuse to look down upon other people. It is starting to affect my relationship with my children because I can’t stand to see them happy for him (and I know this is very wrong). She accused me of kidnapping our infant son hiding at my mothers with weapons. I am a mother and being alienated from my child by his father. I have no idea what to do….we love one another but this vindictiveness is taking its toll in every way. Chinese Zodiac comprises of a twelve year cycle, in which, each year is dedicated to either a domesticated animal or a wild animal. Police responded, it was my fathers wake and infant was 14 years old son. My bfs ex wife has manipulated his kids against both of us and my kids. Nightmare ex… I would LOVE to move on with my life for the sake of my kids and myself. Jail? a bad situation had happened. Im at a complete loss. I do not want to become the vindictive one, but I am SO tempted to air all the awful disgusting things he did to me to get back at him. If you other guys want a good woman, go for old fashioned and less flashy (modern). I left a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage two years ago. Unreasonable people can’t reason and be diplomatic. I’ve kept my ex-wife and my 3 daughters in the house, while I found a basement apartment to live in. Our 13 year old son elected to live with me, she harassed him and tried to choke him into submission. It's true that Sasuke is among the most talented ninjas of his generation, but he is too quick to scorn other people from that vantage point. First of all, don’t be afraid to file a restraining order if you feel unsafe. She has spread rumors and lies about my character, my mental health, my parenting, my professional abilities, and shared private distorted medical details verbally, in court and a great deal over social media. I am eternally greatful for my parents’ sticktoitiveness, and am completely aware of how blessed (and sheltered I was), but this makes me everso more painfully aware of what was taken from my kids, and the false reality he fed them just to win their loyalties, and make good on this threat to avoid child support. Here’s a tip: maybe look at yourself for a minute. Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and Editor-In-Chief of Divorced Girl Smiling, the site, the podcast and the app. I left two of my ex’s for good reasons. So, if mom is telling them that dad is a sex offender, they are most likely going to be confused by it, and become afraid of their parent, when in reality, what they need most during and after a divorce is to feel intense love and attention from both parents. From that day forward she would lie steal and have me in court for things I couldnt believe. In other words, they are destroying their children’s lives because their hate for the ex is stronger than the love for their kids. Here’s Your Checklist, Thinking About Divorce? Even with their claims that it was for them, it was not to destroy me, they know they lied and see it as ok if it is to get what they want, but normal human beings would stop their children and say, “hell no you cant do that to your mom, you better obey her and have some respect.” Healthy happy people do not sue family of any kind in court or do anything that they see could really hurt anyone, but look what our children will now see as an acceptable part of life, a way to punish your ex for the years he paid child support at his own innitiation accidently but he determined when he didn’t feel like it a year prior to taking them, and i never kept him from them, at times i paid him money to feed them, to keep the kids from having him cancel. I’d bet money your ex’s don’t even give you a second thought except for the times they get a phone call or text…”so and so was at this party and hes still going on about how you screwed things up when you guys were 19. Then married for 17+ years, we had a daughter that is now 36 with 3 granddaughters which I never get to see. never sink to there level. I am friends and have a good reputation in this town. Hello, I have read several story’s I can relate to. So, their ex is already on the defensive from the start of the divorce. Beat and kicked our 16 year old daughter for not riding the school bus home in front of her friends. Then you find out that our Constitution is a fairy tale. By Jackie Pilossoph, Creator and Editor-in-chief, Divorced Girl Smiling site, podcast and app, Love Essentially columnist and author. And Sasuke never tried to form empathetic bonds with anyone else, either. They slept around with too many guys. I filed with the courts and received a Stay while I wait for it to go to court in my ex’s Province. Well, I saw it and it was vindictive, demeaning, vile and so completely inappropriate to involve our children. And still no contact with my son. You are too good for that. Load and loads of false and disgusting allegations that I can’t even imagine. But my ex originally did not want our daughters, he had no clue how to care for them and his pregnant mistress was just a kid herself. I did not realize that a person can be this rotten. The ex takes him out of school (because he can, was his words) for a day trip. She has the children keeping secrets and lying to us all the time. There were fights that we had back then that just grew worse over the years. He did it all in secret (well, at least secret from the kids) so that nobody but I could see it. Then when they set their trap. My boyfriends ex has made life simply miserable, for the children, for us and ultimately for herself as well. Untill a year ago on Mother’s day… i got a text from my Son and have been in touch with him till last month? I feel terrible for all the people on here with the crazy ex’s, I really do. Abrasive — lacking any softness, tenderness, or tact in their expression. Aries Child: Traits, Personality & Characteristics. I went to court thinking I would See my son… NO … just a lawyer. one of his children refused to see or speak to us for over 6 months because we caught her In lie her mother had her tell us. I have a couple of ex girlfriends. People need serious help on this issue. I was married to the woman of my dreams from high school sweethearts dating for 5+ years. The list goes on and on. I had all of my tax returns and current pay stubs. I’m not really understanding how you ended up with 50/50 custody that you had to have at his house. Rather than acknowledging his shortcomings ( we ALL have some) and moving forward I’m exhausted and at a complete loss and we have 8 more years before both children are adults… What is the solution?? I wrote her a letter some would call it offering a olive branch, I ask for forgiveness and apologies for things I had never done. When he started taking orders from Obito Uchiha, he took on recklessly dangerous missions, and nearly got himself killed. Required fields are marked *. Not sure if karma will get her anytime soon. He or she spends time scheming and concocting a strategy to destroy their ex because that is the only way they know how to deal with their hurt and anger. It happens so much more than you can imagine. Drama queens make horrific partners. This falls under the category of parental alienation, when one parent tries to turn the kids against the other parent because of personal hatred. But in reality, Sasuke is simply making the world a worse place with that power of his. And he constantly phones my son during the 3 hours I am with him — on the phone that bought and am paying for my son. A former television journalist and newspaper features reporter, Pilossoph is also the author of four novels and the writer of her weekly relationship column, Love Essentially. Sign up for the Divorced Girl Smiling newsletter to receive weekly articles that might help you during and after your divorce! Venus in Virgo man or woman is honest and helpful, sometimes to a fault. If someone really did that they would be charged with a felony if the evidence supported it. Maybe you need a consult with another attorney. I reacted as if they rejected me, or was emotionally triggered by some clue to repressed memories and reacted to that. My ex emailed my three oldest kids a “Fact” letter and printed it out for our 15 year old to read. I don’t want the drama for my kids so I stay silent. There are so many more. In her home, bedtime is 8 PM, dinner at the table, etc. this has been going on since she was 2 and first thing my ex did was grab the baby and act like i was trying to hurt her and my child. Or, they will just have self-hatred, which never leads to anything good for their future. My son was gone! Well that wasn’t enough so she decided to take me back to court seeking $1500.00 each month. Her son though with the substance abuse problems was seen at the pawn shop trying to get a couple of bucks for a five year old laptop and stole another person’s diamond earrings as well as cash. You have a recipe for disaster with ex’s. Even when I made a six figure salary! He’s never provided – that was my job. I will pray for you and your daughters. Sasuke sometimes chided Naruto for being too reckless and jumping right into a situation without thinking. She was eager to do anything for Sasuke's sake, and Sasuke realized that he had an utterly loyal ally in Karin. In other words, they want revenge and they will stop at nothing to destroy their former spouse to “get even.”. I suppose you don’t need the 40-year-senior husband now that you can just take everything your ex husband had and leave his wife on the street. Since the divorce, I have been constantly in and out of court defending myself. It may, initially, be identified as the one that emphasizes the virtues, or moral character, in contrast to the approach that emphasizes duties or rules (deontology) or that emphasizes the consequences of actions (consequentialism). It’s pretty transparent that YOU are the person this article is about, and it gave your ego just enough of a hit to force you to defend your actions. I have never met a divorced couple that doesn’t have issues with each other. However, all 4 were passive aggressive, lying, cheating, manipulative, abusive, and mentally unstable. Seriously, you should be a therapist.”, “If not for your articles I could not have gotten through the last 2 1/2 years so gracefully. We have been divorced for almost 10 years. It’s very scary that it can come down to his or her word against yours, and it can cost tens of thousands (maybe hundreds of thousands) to defend yourself in a court of law. I sometimes cry and curse the moment I married this woman. People think I’m some mean, vindictive monster, but I was scared of them. This impatience and frustration are what led Sasuke to decide "I'll obtain power from anyone, at any price!" After 17+ years of hearing I hate you why don’t you just leave and make us all happy. My ex was the vindictive one for years. All the latest gaming news, game reviews and trailers. I spent almost 100 thousand rand last year getting access to my children after two years of fighting for them just sothat they can do this again to me.
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